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Yesterday my colleague told me that her 9 years old son said some students in his class have had fell in love with girls already.
I wanted to know her opinion, she thinks it is not good for 9 years old students, they are not able to ear money to make a living by themselves, they cannot have affections unless they are independent economically when they grow up. Now falling in love will affect their studding and they can't get good jobs in the future
And she thinks little children will have an accident when they fall in love with each other.
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I feel very upset.
There are two reasons for parents to force their children's stopping relationship with opposite sex,
1) They will have a accident
2) They can't focus on studying so that they will not have a good future.
Which is better for avoiding accidents?
1)Tell children how to use condoms,
2)Forcing them to keep away from opposite sex?
Why do parents think children can't focus on studying when they have a love affair?
The relationship between a boy and a girl who are 9 year old, are related to marriage? Is it so serious?
If they stay alone, not in a group, that mean they have a love affair?
Even they are love affair, love affair is very special? is total different with friendship?
Happiness and future job, which definitely conflict with each other? Children really just cannot get both of them, and just can get one of them? Why?
Male and female, actually their relationship is very simple, don't have so many meaning, a boy and a girl stay alone together, is also very simple, sometime it is very boring, they can be friendship, can be classmate. People think it is very complicated, actually it is not.
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What is happiness?
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昨天同事说了一件事, 引发我好多想法.
她9岁的儿子, 晚上突然很害羞地对她说班里有其他男孩子恋爱了.
我问同事她本人什么态度, 她说对儿子说,现在还没有自立, 没有经济基础, 主要的任务是学习, 以后能自立了再谈恋爱, 现在谈恋爱影响学习, 将来找不到好工作.
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恋爱是什么意思? 恋爱需不需经济基础?
友谊是什么意思? 友谊需要经济基础吗?
朋友是什么意思? 朋友需要经济基础吗?
同学之间的交往需要经济基础吗?
两个小孩子在一起, 到底是什么关系? 需要那么紧张吗?
为什么要把男女之间的事看的这么重, 两个9岁的小孩在一起, 即使是恋爱, 又与经济有什么关系呢,又与未来有什么关系呢?
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同事说家长担心子儿早恋出事.
还能出什么事? 早恋不出事, 老了才恋就不出事了?
香港的电视上教七岁的小孩子用避孕套.
教小孩子用避孕套足够了吧.
不要把小小的孩子的友谊, 与婚姻, 与经济, 与生育那些沉重的东西联在一起, 不要剥夺他们快乐的权利.
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男女之间的关系, 先是被学校整的很神密, 然后被家长整的很沉重, 然后被文学作品整的很神圣, 有什么必要, 人类越文明越扭曲人类自已, 幸福指数越低.
